Resilience & Mindset

49 frameworks, rules, and principles from 1 practitioners — ready to drop into any AI agent.

Kelly McGonigal

What's in this pack

8

frameworks

14

rules

15

heuristics

12

principles

Your AI can help you

  • Recovering from setbacks and failures
  • Building mental toughness for long-term execution
  • Managing stress during high-pressure situations

See the difference

Generic AI gives you a checklist. Gavel gives you specific frameworks from named practitioners — applied to your situation.

Generic AI

"I am so stressed about this launch that I can't sleep or think clearly. How do I perform under this pressure?"

Here are some things to consider:

  • Practice relaxation techniques like deep breathing
  • Break the launch into smaller, manageable tasks
  • Talk to someone you trust about your concerns
  • Focus on what you can control
  • Remember that stress is temporary

The right choice depends on your specific situation...

Gavel
Gavel knows your context
Founder preparing for a make-or-break product launch

"I am so stressed about this launch that I can't sleep or think clearly. How do I perform under this pressure?"

"Your stress response is not the enemy — it is fuel. When your heart races, your body is delivering more oxygen to your brain. Reframe: "my body is preparing me to perform." Research shows people who view stress as helpful have the lowest mortality risk, even lower than people with low stress."

Kelly McGonigal

Stress Mindset Intervention

"Slow your breathing to 4-6 breaths per minute right now. This activates your parasympathetic nervous system and shifts you from fight-or-flight into the physiological state of self-control. Then connect with one person — stress triggers oxytocin specifically to push you toward social support."

Kelly McGonigal

Willpower Breathing + Oxytocin Strategy

Multiple Lenses, One Expert

McGonigal offers two complementary tools: first reframe your stress as performance fuel (mindset shift), then use the 4-6 breath technique to regain physiological control (tactical reset). Generic AI tells you to "practice deep breathing." McGonigal tells you exactly how many breaths per minute and why it works.

See exactly what you get

Real items from this skill pack. Every item includes expert attribution and source material.

Framework

The Three-Step Stress Mindset Intervention

The Three-Step Stress Mindset Intervention A three-step process to transform your relationship with stress by acknowledging it, welcoming it as connected to your values, and using its energy constructively. Steps: 1. Acknowledge the stress when experiencing it - name it and recognize it 2. Welcome the stress by recognizing it as a response to something you care about and connecting it to your values 3. Make use of the energy the stress gives you to confront the problem and take action Why it works: A mindset intervention presents a new perspective that creates bias in how you think, feel, and act. By reframing stress as meaningful rather than harmful, you trigger a challenge response instead of a threat response, leading to better performance and health outcomes. Common mistakes: - Trying to eliminate or avoid stress rather than reframing it - Only doing step one (acknowledging) without connecting to values or taking action - Forcing positivity without genuinely connecting stress to meaningful goals

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Rule

Stress is only harmful if you believe it is harmful

Stress is only harmful if you believe it is harmful Context: Research shows people with high stress but no belief that stress is harmful had the lowest mortality risk - even lower than low-stress individuals

Kelly McGonigal

Heuristic

When your heart is pounding from stress, tell yourself: This is my body helping me rise to this c...

When your heart is pounding from stress, tell yourself: This is my body helping me rise to this challenge Context: Reframing physiological stress symptoms as helpful rather than harmful changes your body's actual response

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Frameworks from the people who've done it

Kelly McGonigal

Give your AI real expertise in resilience & mindset

49 expert-sourced frameworks, rules, and principles. One .md file. Drop it in and your AI cites practitioners instead of guessing.

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