Hila Qu, Reforge · Lenny's Podcast
The aha moment is the first taste of real value
Hila Qu spent years leading growth at GitLab and now teaches it at Reforge, and she starts everyone in the same place: define the aha moment before you touch a funnel. The aha moment is the point where a user experiences your product's core value for the first time, the flash where they get why it exists. It is not a signup, a tutorial completed, or a box checked. At GitLab, Hila's team defined it concretely: two users leveraging two distinct features within the first 14 days of signup.
That specificity is the point. A vague aha, the user is engaged, cannot be measured, targeted, or improved. A precise one becomes the north star every onboarding decision serves. Before you optimize a single screen, write down the exact moment your product's value lands, in the plainest words you can, and make sure everyone on the team would recognize it in the data.
Steal it
Write one sentence describing the exact moment a new user first feels why your product exists. That sentence, not a signup, is your activation target.